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Ronnie Norman - 09/25/2011
1. Betrayals are an inevitable part of the human experience.
2. Betrayals are traumatic because they come from those we trust.
Proverbs 20:19
A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid a man who talks too much.
The key word here is confidence, which is trusting someone with personal information.
Genesis 37:3-4; 23-24
3Now Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons, because he had been born to him in his old age; and he made a richly ornamented robe for him. 4When his brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him.
23So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe—the richly ornamented robe he was wearing— 24and they took him and threw him into the cistern. Now the cistern was empty; there was no water in it.
Matthew 26:20-24
20When evening came, Jesus was reclining at the table with the Twelve. 21And while they were eating, he said, “I tell you the truth, one of you will betray me.”
22They were very sad and began to say to him one after the other, “Surely not I, Lord?”
23Jesus replied, “The one who has dipped his hand into the bowl with me will betray me. 24The Son of Man will go just as it is written about him. But woe to that man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had not been born.”
3. Betrayals have varied motivations:
Competitiveness
Defensiveness
Unhappiness
Jealousy
Greed
Meanness
Expedience
Matthew 10:21
“Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death.
4. Betrayals are hard but not impossible to repair.
5. When betrayed, follow the wise and counter-intuitive teachings of Jesus regarding revenge.
Romans 12:17-21
17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”
21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
6. Don’t get so bogged down with rage that you miss out on how God can work in this situation.
Genesis 50:20
You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Notes from a sermon delivered by Ronnie Norman at FCCC on 08/27/2011.
What kind of man can God use?
1) A man who conquers his pride.
a) Pride is your greatest enemy
b) Romans 12:3 - For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
c) Proverbs 29:23 - A man’s pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor.
2) A man who knows how to define success.
a) 1 Timothy 6:9 - People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction.
b) Measure success wisely, for it is more about character than anything else.
c) Ask yourself these questions regularly:
i) Is my faith in Jesus still intact?
ii) Is my character still intact?
iii) Am I still with my wife and still in love?
iv) Have I passed the baton of faith on to my children?
3) A man who has sound sensual sense.
a) Sexual temptation is every man’s battle.
b) Proverbs 25:28 - Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control.
c) Proverbs 6:25-26 - Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, 26for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread, and the adulteress preys upon your very life.
4) A man who will step up to the plate.
a) Ephesians 5:23 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
b) Ephesians 6:4 - Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
5) As men, we are conquerors. God built us to be strong and courageous. But to be a conqueror and a warrior for God, we must first conquer ourselves. Only though Jesus Christ can we do this.
Notes from a Bible study taught by Ronnie Norman at FCCC on 03/09/2011.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-22 (NIV)
Be joyful always; [17] pray continually; [18] give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. [19] Do not put out the Spirit's fire; [20] do not treat prophecies with contempt. [21] Test everything. Hold on to the good. [22] Avoid every kind of evil.
Thessalonica was a church that Paul established. The town is still a thriving city to this day. In AD 50 or 51 he wrote the first letter to the Thessalonians. In this letter he is concise and direct. He closes the letter with six easy prices of advise, much like when people tell you to "drive safe", or "be careful" when you say goodbye.
1. Choose your attitude.
"Rejoice always"
Your attitude is your choice. Don't be passive.
Philippians 2:5 (NIV)
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus
Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.
Your attitude is contagious. People with bad attitudes will make things worse. People with good attitudes will make bad things better.
Numbers 14:1-2 (NIV)
That night all the people of the community raised their voices and wept aloud. [2] All the Israelites grumbled against Moses and Aaron, and the whole assembly said to them, "If only we had died in Egypt! Or in this desert!
Never allow what you don't have to rob you of what you do have.
2. Talk to the right person.
"Pray continually"
Why God answers prayer: because you ask. Don't make prayer too hard. Pray easy and conversationally. You have a heavenly father who invites you to talk to him.
Reasons we may not pray:
Faithlessness: "prayer doesn't work"
Failures: "I didn't get what I prayed for"
Feelings: "I just don't feel like it"
3. Feed your gratitude.
"give thanks in all circumstances; for this is
God's will for you in Christ Jesus."
Obstacles to thankful spirit:
Excessive noise: the volume of life screaming for attention.
Owe me attitude: everyone owes me.
Worry: dwelling on the negative.
Materialism: need to have everything.
4. Do the next right thing.
"Do not quench the Spirit"
The Holy Spirit leads you and nudges you to do the right thing. Don't avoid it.
5. Pay attention to scripture.
"Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good."
With all of the information coming your way, there is some that is so life giving. Go to church, read your Bible, listen to spiritual music. Let the Word of God bathe your soul.
6. Avoid the edges.
"reject every kind of evil"
Rather than seeing just how much you can flirt with the world, stay as far away from things you know will tempt you as you can. Just stay away from the edge.
Ask yourself this question:
"In light of where I want my life to go, what's the smart move for me in this situation?"